Showing posts with label gay marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label gay marriage. Show all posts

10.15.2010

Holy Crap - A Democrat with conviction!

It is a relief to hear a Democrat actually speak up instead of trying to avoid tough issues. Kudos to Mario Cuomo, Democrat for Governor of New York State!

"I don't want to be the governor who just proposes marriage equality. I don't want to be the governor who lobbies for marriage equality. I don't want to be the governor who fights for marriage equality. I want to be the governor who signs the law that makes equality a reality in the state of New York." - Attorney General Andrew Cuomo, speaking at the Empire State Pride Agenda's annual fall dinner.

from Joe My God

1.30.2010

SIN tax on American Gays

For all my American friends, consdier this advice from Michael Mahler, Editor of the Erie Gay News out of Erie PA.
"...With the upcoming tax season, I urge all those who support the LGBT movement who are members of a same-sex marriage to follow in Gandhi’s example of nonviolent non-cooperation. Do not file your tax return separately when you know that you are married! File a joint return! Claim those exemptions due you! In all things respecting your marriage, assert that you are married, whether local, state, or federal! On all levels or no levels is your marriage valid. ..." - see full article at Gay Media

Now wouldn't it be great if some of you in the USA tried this. Good luck!

9.14.2009

Totally awesome Marriage Equality AD

This is likely the best TV advertisement I have ever seen on the issue of Marriage Equality. This is from Ireland.


You can read more about their campaign for equality here.

7.14.2009

Clinton says "I do to gay marriage."

Clinton says "I do to gay marriage."

One more nail in the DoMA (Defence of Marriage Act) Legislation. Bill Clinton, found himself in the awkward position as President, signed the bill into law. Now Clinton says yes to gay marriage. Can it be that congress will act on this soon? Let's hope so.

America needs this now. Time to join the rest of the western world USA!

6.09.2009

Its all about Steven

Its all about Steven


Its all about Steven...

me and a millions of others too, but today its Steven

Steven was my partner for too short a time but the best time. He died on June 9, 2002.

4.30.2009

"I am a politician who is moral."

"I am a politician who is moral."

We've heard that before from better folks than former Washington DC Mayor Marion Barry. Barry is now a
Washington, D.C. Council member. Barry's comment above was made at an anti-marriage rally held in Washington DC on April 7, 2009 according to DCist.

Washington DC council earlier voted to support Same-sex marriage in the District unanimously. Barry was absent from the vote.

Barry is the kind of guy that makes you wanna give up on politicians. The DCist article and the Edge San Fransico website give lots of background on Barry's flip flop on same-sex marriage, his support of George W Bush and his shady tenure as Mayor of Washington DC.

The motion to make same-sex marriage legal in Washington DC has to be passed by Congress. That motion will be debated in the near future.

Maine moving along toward equality

Maine moving along toward equality

Update on New Hampshire and Maine Same-sex marriage.

The Legislation does not require approval of the Governor to become law. The amended Senate bill must now be passed again by the State House. Good for New Hampshire.

Maine is also moving along toward equality. According to MassEquality, "Yesterday, the Maine judiciary committee voted 11-3 that the marriage bill "ought to pass without amendment." The bill will now go to the Maine House and Senate for a full vote. MassEquality is working closely with EqualityMaine to achieve full marriage rights for same-sex couples. This Saturday, May 2nd, we're headed to Maine to go door-to-door to talk with voters about marriage equality."

Churches haven't been forced to marry anyone

Churches haven't been forced to marry anyone

New Hampshire is the latest Legislature to pass same-sex marriage. The bill passed the House and then the Senate yesterday.

Now we wait for the Governor to act. As we do it may be worth noting that in just weeks Massachusetts will mark the fifth anniversary of gay marriage in that state.

As one person put it in the Boston paper this morning ...

"...Massachusetts hasn't been flooded with sexual predators.

Traditional marriage hasn't been impacted or affected one bit.

There hasn't been a raft of divorces, and children haven't been unusually abused.

Churches haven't been forced to marry anyone in violation of their own faiths.

In fact, the only spreading effect in our society has been other states and countries looking at Massachusetts, deciding that nothing bad is happening after all, and joining the queue. ..."
The world is still here. Amazing right, especially after all those nasty predictions that this was the end of the family.

4.08.2009

Washington DC and Iowa the same sex?

Washington DC and Iowa have same-sex?

Iowa Governor Chet Culver has made a good decision on same-sex marriage...

Culver has indicated he thinks its wrong to pass a constitutional amendment to do something the State Supreme Court has said is discriminatory...

...the Supreme Court of Iowa, in a unanimous decision, has clearly stated that the Constitution of our state, which guarantees equal protection of the law to all Iowans, requires the State of Iowa to recognize the civil marriage contract of two people of the same gender. The Court also concluded that the denial of this right constitutes discrimination. Therefore, after careful consideration and a thorough reading of the Court’s decision, I am reluctant to support amending the Iowa Constitution to add a provision that our Supreme Court has said is unlawful and discriminatory. ...


Read the whole statement here and see Towerland's lengthy blog article here.

An Iowan blogger had this to say ...
"Here's to the governor for doing the right thing. Republicans will hammer Culver for not doing "whatever it takes to protect marriage between a man and a woman," but they weren't voting for him anyway."


... And in Washington DC the city council voted 12 - 0 to extend same-sex marriage rights. It will go to a final vote on May 5. After the May vote, the City will need to have the US Congress pass it to become law in the City. The time is as right as it ever has been. If this Congress can not pass the bill, then they are a bunch of cowards.

A Congressional defeat of this local proposal amounts to the same as the veto used by Vermont Governor Douglas. The only difference is that legislators in Vermont had an appeal process to defeat the veto. Stateless Washington DCers have no such access to democracy.

4.07.2009

Vermont did it!

Vermont did it!

AWESOME
America is right on here! Take that Rush Limbaugh and Michael Savage, Gay marriage is coming to a State near you and me!

The Legislature voted Tuesday to override Gov. Jim Douglas' veto of a bill allowing gays and lesbians to marry. The vote was 23-5 to override in the state Senate and 100-49 to override in the House. Under Vermont law, two-thirds of each chamber had to vote for override.

see Washington post

Lets make Michael Savage puke some more

Lets make Savage puke some more

Michael Savage is driving his ratings up or is this just what you get on Talk Radio in Savage Nation?

That's more than a good reason to support same-sex marriage in Iowa and Vermont. Today legislators in Vermont will attempt to over-ride the governor's veto of marriage equality. Once that happens you will see marriage equality break out all across America. Some States will hold out but it won't be long before more States are added to the marriage equality ledger.
Lets make Savage puke some more.



Vermont Legislators can get a twofer today by outraging Rush Limbaugh and Michael Savage.

Check out Media Matters for more insane stuff puked out by Rush, Michael and more right wing media monkeys...

Ten Democrats can change Vermont

Ten Democrats Can Change Vermont

Its not too late. This is the chance to make the difference in Vermont. Ten Democrats voted against marriage equality. Only five of them are needed to pass the marriage bill in Vermont. You can find a list of those ten here.

Write or call, calls are better and it will take 5 to 10 minutes to do this. Tell them personal stories, tell them to do the right thing and support marriage equality.

If you are from the State make sure to tell them you and your friends will remember how they voted come election time.

Kenneth Atkins, D-Winooski katkins@leg.state.vt.us, kwa138@aol.com (802) 655-1280
Sonny Audette, D-South Burl. (802) 862-4236
Clem Bissonnette, D-Winooski cbissonnette@leg.state.vt.us, clembi@comcast.net (802) 655-9527
Cynthia Browning, D-Arlington cbrowning@leg.state.vt.us, cynthiab@sover.net (802) 375-9019
Tim Corcoran, D-Bennington tcorcoran@leg.state.vt.us (802) 447-0929
Michel Consejo, D-Sheldon mconsejo@leg.state.vt.us, mconsejo@wildblue.net (802) 524-0305
Debbie Evans, D-Essex ekevans@aol.com (802) 878-4317
Richard Howrigan, D-Fairfield (802) 827-6513
David Potter, D-Clarendon shadmtn@msn.com (802) 438-5385
Robert South, D-St. Johnsbury vtrepsouth@gmail.com (802) 748-0873
Jeff Young, D-St. Albans City jeffeyoung@yahoo.com (802) 524-5284

4.06.2009

Vermont, its time to ACT

Vermont, its time to ACT

If you live in Vermont there is no more important time than today to act to defend liberty and support same-sex marriage at the same time. The vast majority in both State Houses have voted to allow marriage between same-sex couples. The Republican Governor has stated he will veto the bill despite the overwhelming endorsement of the elected members of these houses.

Act now to send a message to your legislators urging them to override the governor's veto.

To assist you, use HRC's E-Action Form to contact your representative and state senator.

See more at Pam's House Blend and The Power online

4.03.2009

Gay Marriage win in Iowa

Gay Marriage win in Iowa

As Iowa goes, so does the Nation...

Gay Marriage has become law in Iowa. Same-sex couples took the State to court and won the right to marry after the Supreme Court struck down the law limiting marriage to a man and a woman.

Iowa is America we see depicted in the movies we grew up with. The wholesome goodness of America's dream.

You can expect challenges to this, charges of activist Judges and a referendum or two.

If you're looking for the all American corn fed farm boy, better snatch him up soon, as California has shown us, winning in court only works till the next referendum is held. Read more here.

Lambda Legal filed this case in 2005 on behalf of six same–sex couples who were denied marriage licenses in Iowa, and on behalf of three of their children. Read more at Lambda Legal.

Read the summary: Iowa Supreme Court's decision on same-sex marriage.
Read the full opinion: Iowa Supreme Court's decision on same-sex marriage.

3.23.2009

Vermont Senate Votes for gay marriage

Vermont Senate Votes for gay marriage

Just moments ago, the Vermont State Senate voted with overwhelming support to pass S.115 - the bill to legalize same-sex marriage in Vermont.
26 Senators of the thirty total, cast their vote in support of marriage equality.

The issue now goes to the State House of Representatives next week for a vote where it is expected to pass easily. The Governor could still veto it, though that seems unlikely.

Senators who voted for Gay marriage

Vermont's Freedom to Marry organization is asking people to contact their local Senator (in Vermont) and thank them for supporting legislation to legalize same-sex marriage.

Text of the Bill can be found here An Act to Protect Religious Freedom and Promote Equality in Civil Marriage.

10.29.2008

Yes on 8, I mean No on 8

This is a parody of, and response to, the video called "YES on Proposition 8 (Prop 8) your rights".

It takes the Yes on 8 commercial and substitutes "interracial marriage" to show the effect of discrimination:

Senator Dianne Feinstein says no to Prop 8

This powerful new Prop 8 ad featuring California Senator Dianne Feinstein will be on the air statewide tonight in California.

Senator Feinstein is a trusted and respected voice that will resonate with voters. She joins the chorus of leaders across California who are calling on voters to reject this unfair initiative. See Lez gets Real.

Vote No on Prop 8.

See whats really behind the Churches war with the gay community.

Write to Marry California

The Mormons, Catholics and the Evangelicals are pulling out all the stops to win Prop 8, a ballot measure that will see thousands of marriages invalidated and write discrimination into the state constitution.

The Christian church in North America has spent years raising money fighting gays. These churches were seeing declining membership when Jerry Falwell decided in the early 70's to declare war on homosexuals. With the help of celebrities like Anita Bryant, politicians like Jesse Helms, they ascribed every failing in America to the acceptance and or tolerance of gays.
“Having Governor Schwarzenegger on board since the beginning made it easier to get other people,” Republicans Against 8 campaign director Scott Schmidt. “San Diego mayor Jerry Sanders, L.A. sheriff Lee Baca. ... Big government shouldn’t be telling people who they can marry.”
This was designed to bring people back to church, to fill the pews, to fill the coffers. It worked with local and state governments passing regressive laws prohibiting recognition of same-sex couples, health benefits, adoption, housing and employment rights, and more.

They formed an alliance with politicians through coercion, either you oppose all gay rights or we kick your ass out of office. These actions accompanied many other actions as well. The imposition of laws forbidding women from accessing abortion, common law couples received fewer benefits from the state than married couples, sex education was changed to abstinence only, often without discussing sex.

"Prop 8 is an unfair and unnecessary measure that would eliminate equal protections for same-sex couples and write discrimination into the California state Constitution," siad co-organizer Dana Rudolph, founder of LGBT-parenting blog Mombian. "As marriage equality spreads throughout the country, people in all states have a vested interest in making sure this hard-won right is protected."

These churches and the politicians beholden to them pressed for and got regressive criminal sentencing, more death penalties, longer sentences. The result was more crime, even higher numbers of Blacks and Hispanics in jail, higher poverty rates, fewer workers rights.

The other major effect the Churches have had is stopping a national health care plan that would see every American having health care. The Churches, their politicians, have formed an unholy alliance with profit making insurance companies and drug companies. Framed as socialist, health insurance remains very profitable and in many cases unaffordable. Even those with coverage, half of the personal bankruptcies in the US are due to medical bills.
"In my lifetime, I've seen discrimination," said United States Senator Dianne Feinstein, "and I see it again in Proposition 8." Regardless of your position on marriage, she said, vote against the measure to vote against discrimination.
The fight to stop gay marriage is solely a religious one, made to support the coffers of churches. These institutions need fear to keep people in the pews and the donations coming in to fight these fears. Ironically, the church needs gays to keep fighting in order to keep the fears going.
Republicans against Prop 8

The yes side of Prop 8 in California is throwing every imaginable falsehood into the fight. They are asserting schools will teach children about homosexuality, that churches would eventually be forced to marry gay couples and it goes on. The Mormon church has poured over 20 million dollars into the campaign, by far the most generous spender in this effort.

California is ground zero in the fight to stop gay marriage in America. If the churches lose this ballot measure, they will see other states go the same way. It will eventually see more and more states approve gay marriage. If they win, they have bought some breathing room.

In the end this is not a fight to protect America, but an effort to keep the churches full, the coffers overflowing and the right wing politicians in power. Keep that in mind if you are voting.

10.27.2008

an abomination to God's word, says black preacher

"an abomination to God's word"

African American minister W. James Favorite rejects equating the struggle for gay rights with the civil rights movement.


105 years ago today that Sigmund Freud told the world homosexuals were not sick and they should not be treated as sick. It would take the American Psychiatric Association 70 years to remove homosexuality from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders.

Culturally it still remains a sickness in the hearts and minds of the majority of people in most countries. Successes have been many compared to where we were yet so much more is needed to allow homosexuals to live full and happy lives. Most of Europe and Canada have passed laws that protect against discrimination as have many US States and cities. It remains a political football nevertheless. The old adage, that ones rights are only as good as the next election rings as true today than at anytime in our past.

As the United States approaches a watershed election, poised to erase one gigantic barrier in the fight for equality by electing a black President, gays are again suffering a backlash. Republicans and many Democrats have spoken in favour of ballot measures amending state constitutions to ban gay marriage.

The ballot measure in California would reverse a court decision that said it was discriminatory to ban gay marriage. To beat the courts, Californians are being asked to change the constitution. If successful, the amendment would forbid gay marriage.

The ballot measure is a ruse to get likely republican voters out to support the republican ticket. The measures are designed to play to peoples fears. It worked for George W Bush and it may hold a couple of states for McCain. McCain can still win the election if they motivate enough people, scare them with the 'homosexual agenda' or the prospect of having a black President.

The Obama campaign is riding high. Obama is leading among, urban, women, youth and college educated voters. Yet none of these groups come close to his overwhelming support in the Black and gay communities of America. He is expected to rack up 80 percent or more of all black votes in this election. Democrats are use to receiving the support of black voters, yet they have never seen such lopsided support from any community before with the exception of gays.

Obama's success is exciting for all of us looking for equality and hope, yet there likely will be some unintended consequences for gays in Florida. Florida's ballot measure to prevent gay marriage is also supported by a very large number of blacks in that state. In the tight race for President, republicans are getting the evangelical vote out because of the ballot measure. Democrats are getting the vote out for Obama. The unintended consequence for the Democratic ticket in getting the black vote out, may be the success of a constitutional amendment that discriminates against gays and unmarried straight couples.

African-American Beulah Baptist Institutional Church in Tampa views gay marriage as "an abomination to God's word," minister W. James Favorite told USA Today. He rejects equating the struggle for gay rights with the civil rights movement.

The vote to bar gay marriage requires a 60 percent threshold to succeed. Right now polls say the measure has 55 to 59 % support. A record turnout among blacks and young voters backing Obama could cut both ways.

The St. Petersburg Times/Bay News 9/Miami Herald statewide poll found 48 percent of Democrats support the amendment and a whopping 69 percent of black voters. "Its promise lies in the fact that you are going to see an increase in turnout among African-American voters," Kellyanne Conway, president of the Polling Company told the St. Petersburg Times.

It would be a tragedy to see so many that have suffered so long in their pursuit of equality rejoice in Obama's success, only to see the rights of others eliminated as they celebrate. Obama is everyone's hope.

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10.21.2008

Daily Shame #6

Daily Shame #6

Republicans going for broke, which means gays in sites again...

Sarah Palin supports a Federal Marriage amendment defining marriage as being between a man and a woman. That's not a huge surprise to me or to many of you. In Alaska she and most of Alaska passed a State constitutional amendment doing just that.

What is really interesting and galling is the language the right wing religious leadership use and Sarah Palin has it down.



Here is the text of her response to David Brody during an interview on the Christian Broadcasting Network

Brody: On Constitutional marriage amendment , are, are you for something like that?

Palin: I am, in my own, state, I have voted along with the vast majority of Alaskans who had the opportunity to vote to amend our Constitution defining marriage as between one man and one woman. I wish on a federal level that that's where we would go because I don't support gay marriage. I'm not going to be out there judging individuals, sitting in a seat of judgment telling what they can and can't do, should and should not do, but I certainly can express my own opinion here and take actions that I believe would be best for traditional marriage and that's casting my votes and speaking up for traditional marriage that, that instrument that it's the foundation of our society is that strong family and that's based on that traditional definition of marriage, so I do support that.

"...I'm not going to be out there judging individuals, sitting in a seat of judgment telling what they can and can't do, should and should not do,..." When somebody is saying this you know they are judging. It a little like saying 'Obama's America is not our America'. The inference is clear.

On the good side of the issue ...I almost want to say thank god, but i will stick to thanks be to the universe for Biden's comments on proposition 8 in California. That effort to ban gay marriage in the State is funded by every holy roller and deep pocketed republican in the land. Its seen as a benchmark. If they can ban gay marriage in California, they can do it anywhere in America.

Biden said on The Ellen DeGeneres Show...

“that if he lived in California he would vote against a ballot measure that seeks to ban gay marriage. DeGeneres, who is gay and newly wed to actress Portia de Rossi, has urged Californians to reject Proposition 8. “I think it’s regressive. I think it’s unfair, and so I vote ‘no.’”


Check out No on 8